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Showing posts with label Succeed. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Succeed. Show all posts

Saturday, 31 August 2013

What if all you have is 40 years?


Procrastination

Do the math. Let’s say you are 20yrs old already! Then you have a whooping 20 years more. In football, one will say you are at the “half time” period of your life. From your perspective, life is just getting started. You have time; you can always do whatever you want to whenever you deem fit. You can always take it easy, no rushing. No pressure. No qualms.  In reality, you are half way done. Life is like a Blackberry battery, better still, a Nokia battery. As soon as you disconnect the charger, it starts discharging, running low and low, depending on the activities, until it is flat and out.  Of course, some maximize this battery life while available: quality phone calls, presentations, publishing, sharing, ads, quick searches and look-ups, what have you.  Others do other things which just make the phone go hot!

To have a goal is good, to pursue it is better, and to do so on time is the best.  You cannot continue to push tasks off to the last possible minutes. If you think it is stressful to do it now, wait till when you settle to do it later and find out how much pressure has mounted. Executing your idea may seem overwhelming and stressful, pushing it forward only compounds you woe.  Your future is created by what you do today, not tomorrow. The old mantra says “Don’t leave for tomorrow what you can do today”. I’ll rather kill today’s trouble than push it forward, and add it up to tomorrow’s.  If it is worth the effort, then you shouldn’t wait.

The gospel truth is, the longer you procrastinate, the lower your self esteem gets. The sense of fulfillment is not there. Self-doubt creeps in at will. The odds are higher that you may not get to do what you ought to do as you allow time tick by. Start! Dive in first. Something tells me the farther you go, the more committed you’ll get. Come to think of it, I procrastinated writing this blog. Occasionally I just drifted away. I even left it completely for Wordosaur the other time. See! The easy things are always really not worth it after all.

Quick appraisal: What were the targets you set for yourself, say, 1st of January this year? How many have you seen through? Did you truly pursue them?  Some of them do not take 8 months to achieve, remember? You’ve still got more than enough time before the year runs out….”maybe not”.

You only live once. Sad enough, most people utter this as a defense for the reckless life they lead; the easy escape route. It is the perfect excuse to waste life.  You only live once, but the impact you have could be eternal. Solutions you bring may be unquantifiable. Time is of essence.  Time is a resource, manage it. Idle time seems to pass more slowly than occupied time. In reality the time ticks seconds after seconds. It is our perception of time that differs.

Do something, it’s almost midnight.
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Saturday, 10 August 2013

Vanity: which version?

Vanity of vanities, saith the preacher, vanity of vanities, all is vanity.

But there are varieties of vanity.

The fulfilled, Ferrari driving, empire running, mansion dwelling, fat-account owning, buffet chopping, popular and highly-placed type. This class I refer to as the sweet vanity. Some names are coming to mind, right?

There is the middle class. The average. The comfortable. The unfulfilled. The we we.

There is also the okada riding, garri soaking, fufu-filled, minimum-balance checking, landlord fighting, loan loving "vanitarians" chilling uncomfortably at the base of the food chain.

It is a reality, as much as it is a caution sign, the proclamation above. Some of us however use the quote, or rather, the wise saying too often to console ourselves. It quickly comes to mind when we couldn't achieve a feat someone just clinched. When one is defeated. Wouldn't it be funny if at the end of last EPL season an Arsenal supporter goes to a ManU fan and tells him "all na vanity"? The trophy all 20 teams coveted so much? So it is with success. All is vanity, but succeed anyway.


Don't get me wrong, but if you have settled for what you currently got, except for the few of us at the top, of course (few of 'em I mean), it is a shame. The last time I checked, the ones at the top are even the ones running harder, aspiring higher. Pulling strings so stuffs will be rosier. Wherever you currently seat in the listings, please look up, as we speak, and you'll find space. There is always space up there, out there, and the higher you go in this regard, the spacious it becomes. If however you can't find space, then you are being crushed. probably in a deep mess at the moment. You have a little digging around to do.


Till hell freezes, some golds will never be mined. Hope you are not one of them? Go all out. Be the best you can be, though all is vanity. Kill complacency, though all is vanity. Don't be too conservative, though all is vanity. Bring forth goodies. Be! Or which will you rather choose: Sweet vanity or Bitter vanity?


If you find this odd, then seriously, I'm just kidding.
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